From the Principal
Last week in classrooms and homerooms across the College, teachers and students engaged in conversations about bullying as part of the ‘Bullying No Way: National Week of Action’. Many of the resources used for generating the discussions came from the Bullying No Way website. The key message for all students was that there are many people at the school that students can talk to if others are making them feel uncomfortable or not treating them respectfully.
Junior School teachers reinforced this with students throughout the week and classes talked about what is appropriate and what is inappropriate behaviour between students. In the Senior School the theme each day in homerooms were:
Day 1 - Challenge Stereotypes
Day 2 - Promote Empathy, Embrace Diversity
Day 3 - Foster Positive Relationships
Day 4 - Provide Support
The week culminated with an Senior School assembly presented by the Student Council on Bullying No Way with the message being delivered by students, teachers, Heads of Year and school leaders that there is no place for bullying at Helena College and there is always someone you can talk to if it is happening to you.
While, sadly, our school is not immune from bullying, it is important to consider the national definition of ‘bullying’ before labelling every negative interaction between students as ‘bullying’.
Bullying is an ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships through repeated verbal, physical and/or social behaviour that intends to cause physical, social and/or psychological harm. It can involve an individual or a group misusing their power, or perceived power, over one or more persons who feel unable to stop it from happening. Bullying can happen in person or online, via various digital platforms and devices and it can be obvious (overt) or hidden (covert). Bullying behaviour is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time (for example, through sharing of digital records). Bullying of any form or for any reason can have immediate, medium and long-term effects on those involved, including bystanders. Single incidents and conflict or fights between equals, whether in person or online, are not defined as bullying.
The three key aspects of the definition are that bullying actions are a misuse of power by an individual or group towards another person, the actions are repeated and ongoing over time and the actions are intended to cause harm. The fourth important point is that single incidents between equals is not bullying.
Understanding this definition, what bullying is and what it is not, is important for students, parents and teachers so that the College can respond to incidents appropriately by following our range of students' care and management policies and procedures.
Regardless of whether a situation is defined as bullying, or as a single conflict between two students, the message does not change. No students should feel unsafe here at school and there is always someone that students can speak to when they are being treated unkindly.
Regards
Peter Coombs | Principal